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Life is about relationships, and so many people enjoy reading friendship books that offer them insights and guidance they can use in their own lives. Whether you choose books about friendship that teach you something or ones that simply entertain, you have many options to choose from. Novels, memoirs and nonfiction advising what to do following the loss of a friendship can help you understand developments in your own life. Your choice may depend on what you are looking for. All the best friend books on this list deliver the poignant, intelligent and interesting takes on relationships that you need to become an even better friend.
Friendship helps you feel supported, seen and valued in your daily life. It gives you a sounding board and a place to be yourself. This list includes four novels, but is mostly nonfiction, including memoirs and self-help. Friendship literature is a subgenre of self-help focused on relationship-building.
These rankings are based on the quality of the insights delivered in the books and how well they hold up over time as well as the books' critical reception, commercial success and any pop culture recognition.
This speculative Printz Honor book is set in a world free of hunger, disease and war, so now the government must kill people for population control. Two friends train to become the Scythes that deliver death -- and the teens learn the toll that takes on them and their friendship.
This book is best for fans of fantasy or young adult (YA) novels. Neal Shusterman's Scythe is available from publisher Simon & Schuster.
Gail Caldwell and Caroline Knapp were friends before Knapp was diagnosed with cancer, and Caldwell memorializes their relationship. They became best friends by bonding over their dogs as well as their alcohol dependencies. Caldwell writes beautifully about non-romantic devotion while exploring how their relationship rooted and grew.
This book is best for those looking for books about grief when a friend has died. Gail Caldwell's Let's Take the Long Way Home is available from Penguin Random House.
This much-lauded novel, a finalist for the Man Booker Prize and National Book Award, follows four college friends as they drift through life, with a man who suffered deep childhood trauma serving as their anchor. Hanya Yanagihara examines found family and how we choose (or don't choose) our friends.
This book is best for anyone seeking a novel that meditates on what we owe our friends. Hanya Yanagihara's A Little Life is available from publisher Penguin Random House.
Latina Rebels founder Prisca Dorcas Mojica Rodríguez examines the unique issues facing women of color, including discrimination and colorism, while encouraging community. She provides encouragement and urges pride in identity, creating a space where women of color can feel safe, valued and, indeed, friended.
This book is best for women of color who feel overlooked when trying to make friends. Prisca Dorcas Mojica Rodríguez's For Brown Girls with Sharp Edges and Tender Hearts is available from publisher Seal Press.
The internet may connect us to a great way to share knowledge, but it has also led many people to feel disconnected from others. Anna Goldfarb makes a case for the value of friendship and explains how to achieve it in a world where more and more people feel isolated.
This book is best for anyone feeling closed off from others. Anna Goldfarb's Modern Friendship is available from publisher Sounds True.
What starts as an exclusive group of teens at a camp becomes a clique that rules their world far longer than seems healthy. Jules is shocked when she's welcomed into their exclusive group, and as decades pass, their friendships shift in unexpected ways as they confront real life and abandon their ambitions.
No one can dispute that the world is more fragmented than it used to be. So, how can you find your tribe? Science, argues Marisa G. Franco, who delves into behavior and attachment style to explain why making close friends is difficult and how to make it easier. She offers research-based ways to connect.
This book is best for science nerds. Marisa G. Franco's Platonic is available from Penguin Random House.
Before Ann Patchett became an acclaimed novelist, she befriended fellow writer Lucy Grealy, whose bout with childhood cancer stole part of her jaw. The book follows their intertwined lives for two decades as they pursue literary success and confront some terrible truths about life, including how to navigate losing a friend.
This book is best for those looking for powerful books about real-life friendships. Ann Patchett's Truth & Beauty is available from publisher HarperCollins.
New York Times and international bestseller My Brilliant Friend, which HBO turned into a series, follows the friendship between seeming opposites Lila and Elena. The first book chronicles their first meeting and their schoolgirl years, making it a great coming-of-age tale as well. Elena Ferrante famously writes under a pseudonym.
This book is best for anyone ready to sink into an exceptional four-book series. Elena Ferrante's My Brilliant Friend is available from publisher Europa Editions.
Bottom Line
Books about friendship can lift your spirits and help you form deeper connections. Enjoy a novel, memoir or self-help book to help you move forward in your platonic relationships.