BOSTON -- Massachusetts State Representative Steve Xiarhos, a Republican from the 5th Barnstable district and a Gold Star father, received a public tribute during a recent event at the Massachusetts State House, where his advocacy for military families and commitment to public service were highlighted.
The statement, “We started it, but we (Massachusetts) are not holding the flame of liberty. You State Representative Steve Xiarhos are doing God's work by trying,” was shared in a live update from the State House on Beacon Hill on Tuesday, April 28, 2026. The remark underscores Xiarhos' role in championing issues related to veterans, military service members, and their families in the Commonwealth.
Xiarhos, a retired law enforcement officer, has served in the Massachusetts House of Representatives since January 2021. His personal connection to military service is deeply rooted in tragedy: his son, Marine Corporal Nicholas Xiarhos, was killed in action in Afghanistan in July 2009. Since then, Xiarhos has become a vocal advocate for Gold Star families and veterans' affairs, often speaking about the sacrifices made by service members and their loved ones.
In his capacity as a state representative, Xiarhos serves as the ranking member of both the State Administration and Regulatory Oversight Joint Committee and the Veterans and Federal Affairs Joint Committee. His legislative priorities have focused on supporting military families, improving veterans' services, and honoring those who have served in the U.S. Armed Forces.
Xiarhos gained public attention earlier this year when he spoke out following the deaths of three U.S. Service members in a military operation in Iran. In an interview with WCVB on March 1, 2026, he emphasized the need for national unity during times of grief, drawing from his own experience as a Gold Star father. “I know the pain, and I wish it didn't happen, but I want everyone to know, like, freedom is not free. It's not just a saying,” he said. “So I ask everybody to like, pray for these families and try to put country over politics right now.”
His remarks resonated with many, particularly in Massachusetts, where his advocacy has been widely recognized. The recent tribute at the State House reflects the broader appreciation for his efforts to keep the memory of fallen service members alive while pushing for policies that support military families.
Born on December 8, 1958, in New Bedford, Massachusetts, Xiarhos has spent much of his life in public service. Before entering politics, he served as a police officer in Yarmouth, Massachusetts, for four decades, rising to the rank of deputy chief. His career in law enforcement included roles as a school resource officer, detective, and patrol sergeant.
Xiarhos' transition to politics was driven in part by his personal loss and his desire to create meaningful change for veterans and their families. Since taking office, he has been a consistent voice on issues related to military service, often collaborating with colleagues across the aisle to advance legislation that supports those who have served.
As the 2026 legislative session continues, Xiarhos remains focused on his priorities, which include expanding access to veterans' benefits, improving mental health resources for service members, and ensuring that the sacrifices of military families are never forgotten. The recent recognition at the State House serves as a reminder of the impact his advocacy has had on the Commonwealth and beyond.
While the original statement praising Xiarhos did not specify the speaker or the exact context of the event, it aligns with the broader sentiment of gratitude expressed by many in Massachusetts for his dedication to public service and his unwavering support for military families.